People live up to your expectations. Communicate a higher potential for someone than they believe to be true for themselves. Then watch the magic to happen.
Consciousness
be grateful for everything
(even our challenges because it could always be worse)
Gratitude helps encourage positive emotions; enhance good experiences; improve health; deal with adversity and build healthier relationships. Making a negative situation unrealistically positive is unnecessary. Just find a positive aspect to help make it more acceptable.